“No New Friends”….But Why Not? Normalize Making Friends as an Adult.

"No New Friends" I've seen this caption on so many pictures on social media posts. Indicating that the friend group pictured is solid and has been for years. I love to see friends who have been friends for years still hanging out. I myself have friends that I've had for almost 20 years, and my [...]

The Desire Map

The Desire Map

 One of my colleagues recommended this book. The Desire Map helps you to figure out what you really what. We have so many influences, some we don't even notice. This book is helping me to determine what I really desire and create a map to get there.

Ambition or Control?

Ambition or Control?

Are you ambitious or controlling? I know you would like to think that you are ambitious. In my constant self evaluation, I've been considering this concept.  Often times when someone wants something for someone else it is out of love, but this should be done cautiously and sporadically. Imagine a love one always suggesting something [...]